Its just harder for me....

[drbigpackage]

Ok so this is for all the guys who have a hard time keeping it going all night long. You would think its not a problem but for me it really is. Not the short length but the long...i take forever to cum. Even when im masturbating its like at least 45 minutes. Kind of a pain in the ass actually. I have experimented a lot with girlfriends and found a lot of things that make it easier for me to get off. Im only 20 i shouldnt be having this problem. And it is a problem... like i dont mind not having an orgasm but girls get really upset when a guy doesnt cum because its expected. Hand jobs can become quite hilarious at times if the girl doesnt actually get frustrated because well thats just not gonna do it. I personally prefer just going down on girls because it will make them feel good and they dont have to worry about getting me off. I will very rarely let a girl go down on me because i know it wont make me cum but if they want to have it in their mouth for a while thats fine. I cant belive im being so open about all this but this place seems like a good spot for advice and everything. And i have gotten off to some of the girls on here (just thought i would share that.) Anyway Advice anyone?

[sabrosa]

Originally posted by drbigpackage@May 6 2003, 07:40 AM
Ok so this is for all the guys who have a hard time keeping it going all night long. You would think its not a problem but for me it really is. Not the short length but the long...i take forever to cum. Even when im masturbating its like at least 45 minutes. Kind of a pain in the ass actually. I have experimented a lot with girlfriends and found a lot of things that make it easier for me to get off. Im only 20 i shouldnt be having this problem. And it is a problem... like i dont mind not having an orgasm but girls get really upset when a guy doesnt cum because its expected. Hand jobs can become quite hilarious at times if the girl doesnt actually get frustrated because well thats just not gonna do it. I personally prefer just going down on girls because it will make them feel good and they dont have to worry about getting me off. I will very rarely let a girl go down on me because i know it wont make me cum but if they want to have it in their mouth for a while thats fine. I cant belive im being so open about all this but this place seems like a good spot for advice and everything. And i have gotten off to some of the girls on here (just thought i would share that.) Anyway Advice anyone?
Plenty of oral for the girl and nice long sex session...doesn't sound like it'd be too bad! :P

What really turns you on? You could either try asking the girl to do what you really like, or think about something that really turns you on when she's (for example) going down on you...Fantasy is great for sex....

Does it take a long time if you give yourself a handjob? If it's quicker then perhaps ask if you can cum over her...(some of us like that....:angel: )

besos,
Sx

[drbigpackage]

heh well i guess it can be pretty nice sometimes...like it does bother girls if they cant get me off but it is funny to see them try and have orgasm after orgasm untill they cant stay on top of me anymore and just fall off. And im way way into going down on girls too so that helps with them not caring about me coming or not. I have tried the using my hand thing and it worked and it was cool and all but its not something i would really like to be very regular i dunno maybe i will like it more and more the more i try it. I have tried fantasy with oral but it just doesnt work for me and my most recent girlfriend is who i would be fantasizing about anyway she is so sexy. I guess i could always just loan myself out as a sex toy since all i am really good for is pleasing girls but that works for me because i love that. Being in love with a girl has been something that has made my sex a lot better...not really sure why or how it is just soooo much better. I guess just knowing what they want and vice versa and each of us wanting the other person to feel good. Damn i love to ramble about nothing...well im just gonna stop now thanks for the input sabrosa oh yeah any by the way your pics are fuckin hot!

[dreamer]

I was the same way when I was your age.... (geez I sound like my dad LOL).. But after you really are in love with someone that changed for me. It is great where she can cum and cum and cum before you do. Once you know she has been fullfilled you can find your favorite position and go for it!!!!!!!!!! Good luck and enjoy it while you can :D

[lcfdfirefighter]

it could be that your having a hard time getting off if you are on a certain type of medication. if you are on a medacation check with your doc and find out what the problem is

[basco]

Originally posted by sabrosa@May 5 2003, 11:26 PM
Plenty of oral for the girl and nice long sex session...doesn't sound like it'd be too bad! :P

What really turns you on? You could either try asking the girl to do what you really like, or think about something that really turns you on when she's (for example) going down on you...Fantasy is great for sex....

Does it take a long time if you give yourself a handjob? If it's quicker then perhaps ask if you can cum over her...(some of us like that....:angel: )

besos,
Sx
first i agree with sabrosa...make it long and slow for her...think about getting the woman "close" and change directions....make her CRAZY for your cock before you give it to her...the plan is to get yourself hot making her crazy... :rolleyes: :rolleyes:.....it has always worked for me, and i can go on forever if i want, but when i want to cum, and i like to "torture" myself too...i do... :P :P :P :P

also, try jerking off with lube and grabi it softly and use as little pressure as you can to help the sensitivity.... :w00t: :w00t:

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