Ladys Oral Sex

[fiftyone]

I would like input from the Ladys on this only. I know there are alot of factors that may be taken into account on this. Like kissing and holding and stroking warm up and how much time you think about the act before it starts. I would like to know from the time your sex partner puts his mouth on your pussy, how long does it take you to get into the turned on stage.
When a male is hard we are there, just cos ladys get wet does not mean she is into it.
I start out massaging and sucking my wifes tits and doing things to her that I know she likes. Nibbling the back of her neck does get her really wet and putting my tongue in her ears makes her moan. All these things are forplay and mood builders before getting between her legs.
When I get to the sweetness of her lovehole I lick all around the lips then her bumhole taking time and working slowly. My point is she does not seen to get into it until about 20 mins has pasted no matter how much forplay and teasing I do.
What I would like to know is, is that about normal more or less. Does it take most ladys that long or is this a long time just to get into it. I am very interested in your replys. If you think I'm out of line by asking you, let me know that to.

Thanking you for your time.

[sabrosa]

Hi fiftyone,

Well I'm not really sure I'm the right person to be answering this...I'm always ready for it long before my boyfriend gets near my pussy. Usually I cum the first time within 2 or 3 minutes of him going down on me...but then I think I'm quite highly sexed. It may well be that other things turn your wife on more than going down or her (at least to start with). What does she say she likes you to do? Maybe she prefers to watch a movie to start with..or whatever does it for her. Repetition can be a bit of a passion killer, so perhaps you need to surprise her? Anyway, she's very lucky to have a man that wants to go down on her all the time (No1 condiition for a good partner in my opinion!)


:P :P :P :P :P :P :D

S xxx

[fiftyone]

Hi and TY for the reply.
She does not like porn movies (i love them) and she tells me that i do everything perfect to her. She has told me she needs to go to another place in her mind and don't like me to talk as i'm tonguing and eating her beautiful pussy. I don't know where the place is she goes to but after about 20 mins she is so fucking hot and moaning and fucking my face like crazy (i wish I could go there too...lol)

>>>Repetition can be a bit of a passion killer, so perhaps you need to surprise her? <<<

You may have something there. I have never used any toys on her ( my fingers, 8" cock,long tongue should be enough) but after 31 years maybe it is time to try something like a 10" rubber cock on her. (I almost hate to do that because she may like it to much....I guess that makes me selfish don't it) damn , what you think???? what should I try??????

Thanks sweetie for talking to me...
:) :) :) :)

[sabrosa]

Originally posted by fiftyone@Apr 21 2003, 02:47 AM


You may have something there. I have never used any toys on her ( my fingers, 8" cock,long tongue should be enough) but after 31 years maybe it is time to try something like a 10" rubber cock on her. (I almost hate to do that because she may like it to much....I guess that makes me selfish don't it) damn , what you think???? what should I try??????

Thanks sweetie for talking to me...
:) :) :) :)
Well you could try that, though I wouldn't want 10" anywhere near me! Vibrators or clit stims are good...I was more thinking or different places around the house, or in hotels etc. Try to get her to tell you what she would like... ;)

S x

PS There are different types of porn - I actually find that movies like 'Sex and Lucia', 'Bound' ' '9 1/2 weeks etc.' sexier that pure porn.

[quaz173]

Originally posted by sabrosa@Apr 20 2003, 11:10 PM

PS There are different types of porn - I actually find that movies like 'Sex and Lucia', 'Bound' ' '9 1/2 weeks etc.' sexier that pure porn.

sorry for having a male reply to this thread, but i completely agree with sabrosa about the movie thing. i've looked at a little porn myself (videos) and often found it crude, same and not "sexy" enough. the non-porn but highly sexed dramas are excellent in terms of "sexy" and "hot" stuff for couples to watch. there are quite a few dramas like the ones sabrosa listed that get extremely sexual... i'd suggest you watch one of those with your wife and see if she would like that :P

finally, i'd like to say that sameness if probably why she takes so long and has to go to some special place. I have a suggestion: talk and share your fantasies... at least try to get her to share hers and then you should encourage what she tells you and maybe start acting on it (if possible) while she's in it. i figure she probably goes to one of her fantasies, and this is what you want to know. i think she'll probably get quite worked up if you try to fish out all the details about her fantasy... but make sure you are very encouraging about this - it can be a rather sensitive subject.

hope this helps somewhat

[fred75]

This is a kind of hard one, a lot of ladys will try to hide from you, how good a job, your doing eating their pussy and if they have come, because some of the girls can have the multiple Orgasm's, and want to get their nut off on your tongue, as many times as they can, before you think you've done a wonderful job and proceed to doing the pee hole polka. with them.

[Latina18]

hey,

all woman are different. i don't really know ur wife, but i knwo when my boyfriend goes down on me, i cum in 9 or 10 minutes. but then again, that's me.

Try porn with here, or if ur into festishes, try whips+stuff like that. Or, try toys on her (i especially like the butterfly :wub: ).

You could also sit with her and converse different ideas, caus like i said in the beginning, all gals are different! :)

Peaches

[basco]

hi i would offer this: i get into "hot mode" as soon as something touches my clit--tongue is best. the other stuff is good, and if she needs to get into a fantasy, then it's really sweet of you to do all that stuff every time, and routines are not always bad, but for me, (and i'm the female part of the basco couple,) it's a very physical thing--there's nothing around my bumhole that turns me on, and the vaginal penetration is for reaching internal parts. the clit is where the stimulation goes. and i try to hold off as long as i can, cause i can 'cum' for half an hour before i climax. sometimes, a clit is too sensitive to take direct stimulation--in that case, tease it--off and on--and see if you can't sense the difference.

[zephanie]

I know what it's like to have the same thing done to you all the time. But i do like the end result. What my husband does to make it more enjoyable for me is.... Sometimes he will change his voice and pretend he is someone else like an actor or a person like that. or sometimes he will tell me everything he is going to do or would like to do to me. sometimes we just be our selves.

But i do know with all my heart that my husband is the only man that can satisfy me the right way. Thats why i love him so much. :wub:

[pamela5432]

been married 28 years never had a cum from fucking
but o boy frpom oral im there straight away and normally cum after about 1 minute - the first time that is
pamela5432

[basco]

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but o boy frpom oral im there straight away and normally cum after about 1 minute - the first time that is
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:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

28 years with no vagunal orgasm....bummer... :( :( :(

looks like you found the solution though.... :D :D :D

kisses :kissing: