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[manyanaman]

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[admin]

I wouldnt push it... I mean you did get to have the other girl. I mean what if u do push for this... You can possibly loose a girlfriend and maybe some friends?

[sabrosa]

Originally posted by rouge@Apr 12 2003, 09:22 AM
Originally posted by admin@Apr 11 2003, 07:03 PM
I wouldnt push it... I mean you did get to have the other girl. I mean what if u do push for this... You can possibly loose a girlfriend and maybe some friends?

I agree. If my boyfriend did this to me I'd dump him like a shot. OK, she agreed to it the first time, but she said she didn't lwant to do it again. If you have the threesome you're being unfaithful if your gf doesn't agree. Full stop.

S.

[Dave]

Originally posted by sabrosa@Apr 16 2003, 11:29 AM
Originally posted by rouge@Apr 12 2003, 09:22 AM
Originally posted by admin@Apr 11 2003, 07:03 PM
I wouldnt push it... I mean you did get to have the other girl. I mean what if u do push for this... You can possibly loose a girlfriend and maybe some friends?

I agree. If my boyfriend did this to me I'd dump him like a shot. OK, she agreed to it the first time, but she said she didn't lwant to do it again. If you have the threesome you're being unfaithful if your gf doesn't agree. Full stop.

S.
I'm with my girl on this. As much as I'd like to go to bed with her and another girl I know she's not into it at the moment, so I wouldn't force it.

[LisaE]

I learned a lesson the hard with the last 3-some I was in. I was dating aguy about a year ago who brought up one night if I would ever be interested in a 3 -some with him and one of his guy friends. We had been drinking that night and feeling quite relaxed I said sure, I had had a number of group sex advendtures in the past and would be open to it.
Well nothing happend for awhile until a few weeks later. We had planned on going on a vaction for a few days and when he showed up to pick me up he was with a friend.

I was caught off gaurd and told him this wasn't how I wanted to do it - that is spend 3 days with him and a friend. After some coaxing I decided, what the heck.

We went and the vacation started off wonderfully. The last day of the trip though, my boyfriend had gone off for an early morning jog, and his friend was feeling quite horny. He woke me up and we started to get it on. Soon, my boyfriend returned. I looked over at him and he had a strange look on his face, I asked him to join but he declined.

The rest of the morning he was pretty quite and cool. I started thinking about what was going on and figured out that he didn't mind me having sex with this guy as long as he initiated it. Well I tried like heck to initiate one more sex session with him that day, but failed.

We headed home and that was the last I ever heard from him.

Live and learn. Be careful.