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scorpiochick
11-19-2002, 10:07 AM
hey all...
i am 19 and have a HUUUGEEE sex drive, meanwhile, my boyfriend is 28 and he does not. Whenever we do have sex it is the same old missionary position and he doesn't vary it at all. He who bragged about having a 9" tongue and could breathe out his ears still hasn't gone down on me, meanwhile it is ok for me to blow him. I understand if he is tired, but I have needs too. I even tried getting one of those cheesy sex games and he made me take a rain check for all the things we had to do to each other because he was tired. I want some romance and I want hot sex. I want him to push me on the kitchen table and fuck the shit out of me. Whenever I talk about it he just clams up. I am getting pretty tired of this and I don't know what to do. I have tried just about everything. We have talked about marriage, and I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me, but our sex life SUCKS. So if anyone has any ideas, I would greatly appreciate hearing them. Sorry this was so long...thanks.
Hey Scorpiochick,
How long have you two been together ?
scorpiochick
11-19-2002, 06:22 PM
close to 2 years, maybe a little over, it is hard to tell because it just sort of happened. i have been living with him for 6 months.
Hi There,
It could be that the inital "Thrill" is not as strong for him anymore..
Like the "New has worn off" ....I've been married for 12 years and I've gone through this many times....
I'm not saying for sure that your problem is the same as mine , sometimes people just dont want it as much as the other person.
I guess it all depends on how much you care for him, and how frustrating this is for you...Are you willing to give up some sex for the sake of the relationship?...Honestly, to me he sounds kind of selfish anyways..
There are alot of possibilities as to why ...Hell, maybe he just needs some Viagra...
Good Luck .
Unregistered
11-20-2002, 10:48 AM
I find it very odd that he hasn't tried to gratify you orally after making the 9" tongue statement, especially since you have been together so long. Sounds like is all talk and no action. If he won't try to satisfy your needs you shouldn't try to satisfy his.
scorpiochick
11-20-2002, 10:54 AM
hey,
i called him on the 9" tongue statement, he said it was just a pick up line. he has eaten out girls before in the past, that he has told me, and they were all one night stands, but he won't do it for me, because he doesn't like it. Well, i take my time to clean and shave and i have thought about buying a can of whip cream. ah hell. i am just repeating what i did before. he told me we need to compromise, but he isn't meeting me in the middle. i will jjust talk to him, that would be best. i do want to be with him, and maybe you are right about the "new, the thrill" being gone. my problem is everytime I spice it up he doesn't wanna have sex. hmmm, i think that i will just tie him to the bed and have my way with him..see what happens there. thanks for the advice...
Unregistered
11-23-2002, 06:19 AM
Scorpiochick,
It isn't that the new is gone or the thrill. Since he hasn't gratified you orally he doesn't even know you as far as I'm concerned. Maybe your to clean for him, considering you cleaned and shaved for him and he still hasn't tried to find out your reactions when the right buttons are pushed.
The last females that I'd want to orally gratify would be one night stands.
Unregistered
11-23-2002, 06:27 AM
scorpiochick, I still say he hasn't gratified a girl orally and doesn't know where to begin. Maybe you should take him by the ears and teach him. :D
scorpiochick
11-23-2002, 09:41 AM
i will try the grab him by the ears one tonight, and see what happens..i will let you know tomorrow.
:D
Whacker
11-24-2002, 12:48 AM
Hi Scorpio
Have you tried throwing him on the floor ,sitting on his face and sliding your pussy up and down his face until he is soaking wet ......might not do anything for him , but you should have a good orgasm. Then get up and walk out of the room.leaving him on the floor with a face covered in cum.
Don't forget to let him breath !!!!!
:angry:
admin
11-24-2002, 01:09 PM
ahaha cool thread :)
Look foward to hearing what happened yesterday... Don't leave us hanging to long! :)
daywalker_1954
11-24-2002, 08:10 PM
hey girlfriend...
i have the same problem with my lady...same ordinary stuff. she'll do me but i have to really push to let me do her and then she go's on with some talk stuff which kills the thrill. we've been together for two years....
from my view you are getting some good info.. I love giving it to a women like that.. but anyway...i've got my needs taking care of on the side for a few years by the same still...mmmm... good lickin to ya... :P .. :D
scorpiochick
11-25-2002, 04:41 AM
well folks, i tried. to no avail. i got all dolled up in some victoria's secret lingerie, lit some candles, gave him this long blow job, masturbated in front of him, to show him how i like to be played with. the second i tried to guide him, he flipped out. maybe it is just not in my future, being eaten out. i think i am going to try just walking around naked for a few days. and not let him touch me, like somebody said. sorry that i don't have anything better to report. i will try and get him to take some pictures, maybe then i can get him in the mood, and of course, i will post them if i get them....
talk to you all soon :(
Whacker
11-25-2002, 07:43 AM
Hi Scorpio
Why don't you take some pictures of yourself , we would all love to see them especially that nice manicured pussy you told us about ........how about a picture of you in that secret victorian lingerie , knickerless .....then we can all get down to some serious masturbation
:)
unregistered
11-25-2002, 10:48 AM
scorpiochick
You Blew it :o no pun intended. You're going to have to make sure he gratifies you before you gratifiy him in any way, PERIOD!!
Sounds to me like he's scared to death of having to use that 9.5" tongue and putting himself in a situation where he would have to try to breath thru his ears. :huh: How old is this casanova anyhow? :D
scorpiochick
11-25-2002, 10:50 AM
he just turned 28
scorpiochick
11-28-2002, 06:35 AM
HE DID ITTTTTTTTTTT!!!!
I don't have any pictures, but I am working on that one.
Whacker
11-28-2002, 08:33 AM
congratulations .......keep it clean shaved and he might do it again , if not call m e and I'll do it :P
admin
11-28-2002, 08:46 AM
Originally posted by scorpiochick@Nov 28 2002, 08:35 AM
I don't have any pictures, but I am working on that one.
We look foward to it :)
unregistered
11-29-2002, 08:52 AM
scorpiochick,
Sorry about having you repeat his age and for adding the 1/2" to his tongue. :D Well after reading your last reply I see he finally saw the light and decided to return your favors. :P :D Well my work is done here for now. :D I'll be reading and watching for future progress. ;)
mintwal
12-01-2002, 06:44 AM
Scorpio
Whats your thoughts on anal sex, would you try it?
A tonque up your arse is really nice, have you tried it? :P :P
scorpiochick
12-01-2002, 07:46 AM
I very much enjoy anal sex. And the tongue thing...very nice ;)
Whacker
12-01-2002, 08:35 AM
Hi
I'd rather put it in your mouth and let you enjoy yourself,
;)
scorpiochick
12-01-2002, 04:35 PM
I enjoy that too..especially swallowing.. :lol:
Mintwal
12-01-2002, 06:23 PM
Scorpio
Seems to me you are wasted on that man. Any female who enjoys all holes being explored is a real woman. He should be enjoying you nightly. Can't wait for some pics, especially your arse. :P :P
scorpiochick
12-01-2002, 08:10 PM
working on it...just for you and whacker..and everyone else too, but I don't know if I can compete with Morgan, he's got a pretty hot girlfriend, I wouldn't mind a chance with her.... :rolleyes:
mintwal
12-01-2002, 09:36 PM
Scorpio;
Have you tried girl to girl, if you do let hear about it, and some pics would be nice, even one of you with clostehes on would be acceptable to begin with. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :P
scorpiochick
12-02-2002, 02:59 AM
I have a story...I was the captain of the cheerleading squad in high school..and we had a hot tub party with about 5 of the girls, and we were all drinking, which led to being naked, which led to alot of sex. but i have to get ready for work, so i will tell you all about that later on. ;) :D :rolleyes:
mintwal
12-02-2002, 04:37 AM
teaser----pleaser. <_< <_<
Tonguemaster
12-17-2002, 11:46 PM
How can you leave us hanging like that? You can't start a great story like that and just go to work, RRRRRRRR! :angry: MUST HEAR MORE!! Glad your man came to his senses! Hell, all it ever takes for me is a chance! So come on! Keep talking!
Try the ever so faithful 69. That way he has no choice but to eat you.