I want to have sex with my girlfriend in her ass

[help me]

me and my girlfriend been together for 2 years and I want to experiment a little further. I would like to have anal sex with her but she is scared and to be honest I wouldnt really know how to go about it. I hear there is a certain way to do it and if I do it wrong I will hurt her. Can anyone give me some tips? Also how should I go about doing it? Do I talk to her about it first or do I just bend her over and push into her other hole?

[eman]

No, no, NO! Never just pop it in there. You might not only loose her trust but also scare her away from anal sex for a very, very long time to cum. Trust me, I was in the same boat as you a few years back. So here’s a few tips:

1) Take your time. Most women don't like the idea of putting your man-hood up their exit only. The trick is to first tease her tulip while making love. Weather that be a gentle touch or sliding your tongue a little lower while your eating her peaches. Over time (meaning days/weeks etc not minutes) She might really like it and you might be able to finger her there. If she lets you make sure your finger is plenty wet. (Spit or lube will do the job just fine). Try not to dig around or poke her. Remember be gentle & caress. Also keep finger nails trimmed short and as smooth as possible.

2) Gentle is the key word her. Try not to touch to hard. Keep your fingers moist and be soft. Don't try fisting her on the first go. Relax take your time and it will payoff over time.

3) LUBE LUBE LUBE, Use lube for the big guy spit just isn’t enough. When trying to figure out how much is enough . . . you can never have enough.

4) Take your time make her bud feel good by giving it pleasure. If she thinks you’re going to stab her with your pick she may not be able to relate stabbing with pleasure. Lube up your finger first work that in there. Try fucking her at the same time to distract her if it hurts a little. When she’s all worked up, be gently go slow and listen to her. Talk to her find out how she is doing and how much more you should move in. Caress her back with your hands (feathers do nicely as well). Kiss the swell of her neck.

5) Doggie style may seem like the best way to go but it really isn’t. First timers prefer either being on top or frog. That is, laying on her back with her feet in the air but bent, like a frog. Prop her up a few inches by placing a pillow under her.

If you take your time, pay attention to her and are loving about it you may just get your wish. TRUST me on this. At first my girlfriend was not even open to the idea. I played things slow and showed her just how much pleasure she could get out of her other end. FYI Aside from the clit, the anus has thee most nerve endings then any other part of her body. So if your woman can have a vaginal orgasm (the more rarer of the two most common forms of the female "O") then she just might be able to have an Anal "O" as well.

Take it from me until I showed her the magic I could to her little friend she cringed at the idea. Finally, when SHE was ready. I made her cum 5 times anally.

It’s worth mentioning that water based lubes are the way to go and not oil based. Oil is actually better by providing more “lube-ness” but can cause damage to the condom making STDs easier to transmit. Some of the newer water based ones are actually pretty good though (such as Eros Gel). It has a moisturizer in it so after use it leaves your skin silky smooth and soft.

Good Luck,

-e

[Checksum]

the next issue with anal sex, poo dick. For me its been kinda hit and miss on this issue. SHe can say she dosn't have to poo at all, and for some reason, it still happens. Other times its totally clean. Anyone with experience with this issue please post!

[Bubbly]

the next issue with anal sex, poo dick. For me its been kinda hit and miss on this issue. SHe can say she dosn't have to poo at all, and for some reason, it still happens. Other times its totally clean. Anyone with experience with this issue please post!


well lmfaooooooooo

you guys insist on sticking your dicks in our poo holes...so poo is what your going to get sometimes. What are you expecting? Rose scented anal passages???? lmfaoooo oh im sorry, what a shitty subject!!!!

ok ok i know, shut up bubbly

:w00t: back to my padded cell :w00t:

[ozar]

No shit!! Play with fire and you'll get burnt.

[SammytheBull]

Have you thought about trying hypnosis. Some porn stars have used it. Where do you live I might be able to help you out? “with the hypnosis” not the donkey punch.
:lol:

[mastersho]

yes guys take it easy an dont rush. if the woman will let you finger that ass while eating that pusssy she is going to let you fuck that ass . but by all means please use some lube or have that dick fresh from a pussy fuck tofuck that ass.